Reflections
Weekly reflections from Wayfinder's Weekly - essays on navigating threshold seasons, transitions, and the messy middle between endings and beginnings.
Want longer form writing from me? Check out my two books: In Your End Is Your Beginning: A Memoir & Spiritual Wayfinding Manual and Hill Country Strong: Reflections for Healing Through the Texas Flood
Resurrection is happening now
Transformation doesn't wait for you to be ready. It happens in the mess, in the goo, in the cold spring rain when you're still becoming.
I mean...have you ever watched a birth? It's messy y'all.
Rebirth isn't something that happened once in ancient history that we're still waiting to happen again. Rebirth is not a moment you commemorate once a year. It is a direction you walk in.
What Did You Do Before You Learned to Be Knotted?
The present moment feels awfully knotted. The ground beneath us feels shaky, and when I don't know the way forward, I look back.
Sounding Like Yourself
This week, something surfaced for me. A vision I've been carrying and slowly finding words for. I finally said it out loud and put words to page. It surprised me with how whole it sounded when it landed.
I'm calling it the common wealth of compassionate soul care.
Two words, not one. Common wealth is a kind that belongs to all of us, that can't be quantified by a salary or a price tag. A movement, not a program. A way of showing up to your ordinary life — your job, your family, and all the hard and beautiful demands of being human — with a shared lens that changes how you see everything you're already doing.
The Goo Season
Goo season is not a place to set up camp. It is not the truth about who you are, but it tells the truth about what's being shed. The formlessness is purposeful. The imaginal cells are already present, already carrying the blueprint of what comes next. They just can't be seen yet from inside the dissolution.
You need people who can hold the chrysalis.
Not to rush you out of it. Not to explain it away. Not to remind you of all the reasons you should be further along by now. You need people who can sit with you in the goo and say: I know. I see you. This is not the end of the story.
When Everything Feels Like Chaos 🌀
External chaos + internal chaos = exhausting.
Here's what I keep returning to when everything feels like too much:
Chaos isn't the problem. Chaos is the PROCESS.
Every creation story I've ever read starts the same way: formless void, watery chaos, darkness.
And then: breath. Movement. Light. Order emerging from disorder.
Chaos precedes new order.
The mess is part of the making.
Your life falling apart might not be collapse. It might be reconstruction.
The question isn't "How do I stop the chaos?"
The question is: "What wants to emerge from this?"
The⚕️Oath: Do No Harm
In medicine, there’s a simple oath that precedes all the complexity: Do no harm.
It doesn’t mean “do nothing.”
It doesn’t mean “preserve every system.”
It means that even in moments of urgency and intervention, harm is not treated as acceptable collateral damage.
I wonder what it would mean to treat do no harm as a wayfinding principle for our communities right now; not a rule or a purity test, but a compass. Something we return to when visibility is low and emotions are running hot.
Looking at this moment with elder eyes ⭐
When we look back at old photographs, we rarely linger on what embarrassed us at the time. We don’t fixate on the awkwardness of our overbite, the way our jeans pinched us weird, or the missteps. Instead, we see past the imperfections and recognize the heart that was present all along.
